She had said to me, it can be normal with one, which you have, but more than one can be dangerous. Then she said, oh wait, y ou have more than one, the other girl (another patient) has one.
Now, giving me all these news, she didn't have any info about my activity restriction, or anything definite until the head midwife comes in in the afternoon. It seemed a little unprofessional that she called me with all these bad news, but didn't have any answers, couldn't tell me exactly what they would do, what EXACTLY anything means, even about going to an ob/gyn.
So, now I have all these bad news, most of which is that these things can lead to a preemie, a baby with growth restricitions, or bleeding to death possibly, and a c/s. I don't mean to be negative.
I will GLADLY give up my homebirth, for a healthy baby. And trying to be positive, at the last u/s they said he was looking really healthy, he had legs, and arms and heart had 4 chambers, ect. So, I am thinking, hopefully the growth restriction won't be to much of a problem.
She said probably I will go back in 3 weeks for another u/s to check everything again, but of course, this too she couldn't confirm b/c the other midwife wasn't there yet.
So, I found at at playgroup with some friends, and proceeded to cry in the middle of it.
o yeah, and my amniotic fluid is quite low
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I'm sorry you got all that bad news. You and baby will be in my prayers.
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